Dear God, I Don't Get It

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Category: Contemporary
Date Published: April 23, 2013
Number of Pages: 112
Print Price: $7.19
eBook Price: $5.94

I have just finished Patti Maguire Armstrong’s delightful and insightful Catholic novel for young readers, Dear God, I Don’t Get It, and before I say another word, I have one very important question to ask. Where was Armstrong’s book fifteen or twenty years ago, when I was raising my five sons?  I sure would have liked to see them bringing this gem home at book report time, instead of some of the mainstream, secular award-winning books that were stocked in their Catholic elementary school’s library.

Dear God, I Don’t Get It is such a winning combination of entertainment and enlightenment, and as the mother of all sons, I especially appreciate the fact that it’s told from the perspective of a young boy.  It has been my experience that so much of the modern fiction aimed at youngsters is written to appeal more to readers of the feminine persuasion—but this story is one that both boys and girls can enjoy in equal measure.

The protagonist and narrator of Dear God, I Don’t Get It is 12-year-old sixth-grader Aaron Ajax, the oldest in a family of three brothers.  He introduces us to the rest of his family members, and even to their pets.  Of Leonardo the parakeet he says, “I had just taught him to say ‘pretty bird’ and ‘good morning.’  He had taught himself to say, ‘It wasn’t me.’  I guess he’d heard it enough around our house that he’d picked it up on his own.”

Hearing those simple words, we know that the Ajax family is a normal one that includes spirited and sometimes naughty little boys.  But Aaron also tells us that his family has recently gone from being somewhat apathetic in their faith – sometimes even missing Sunday Mass when it was inconvenient to attend – to truly putting God first in their lives.

The Ajax family has had a good life in Kalispell, Montana, and Aaron is surrounded by longtime childhood friends, including a best friend from his first day in kindergarten.  Therefore, he is distraught to find out that his dad has lost his job – and now that he’s found a new one, it means that the family must move from the only home he’s ever known to Bismarck, North Dakota, where he will be the dreaded “new kid” in school.

Aaron prayed that this wouldn’t happen; why didn’t God listen to his prayers?  And that is the underlying question posed by Armstrong’s book. Why does it seem that so often, our prayers aren’t answered the way we want them to be?

Aaron goes through some cringe-worthy experiences as he adjusts to his new life in North Dakota.  He longs to be both a saint and a hero – inspired by the books he’s read about such individuals – but falls into the age-old human trap of rationalizing his actions, of thinking that the ends justify the means.  As his life seems to be spiraling downward, he begins to doubt that God is listening; yet he continues to pray for help and guidance, to trust that God must have a plan for him.

Luckily, Aaron has the kind of parents who have passed on the truths of the Catholic Faith to their boys.  And luckily, his wise and caring parents expect him to live up to a higher standard than the secular world expects, but at the same they also remember what it was like to be young and don’t mete out unreasonably severe punishments for the mistakes he makes.

What’s beautiful is the way Armstrong reminds us, through Aaron’s father’s words to his oldest son, that we must put ourselves in our Father’s hands, with childlike confidence: “It helps if you turn your troubles over to God instead of carrying the burden alone…Many times when I haven’t gotten what I wanted, down the road I saw that in God’s wisdom, he gave me something better.”

Thanks in large part to his parents’ loving guidance, Aaron Ajax is changed by the end of the story, even though it takes place over a very short period in his young life.  Ultimately, he sees that God can use all things – even the bad things that happen– for good.  Aaron not only learns to accept God’s will, but he also learns the true meaning of being a hero.

Armstrong’s book is humorous at times, and exceedingly well-written, and her characters are fleshed-out and utterly real.  The story draws the reader in (even this adult reader, who found as much to enjoy in it as any middle-schooler), and it imparts some serious Catholic theology, morality lessons, and information about the lives of the saints – but it does all this without preaching from atop a soapbox or cramming those lessons down the reader’s throat.

Every kid who reads Dear God, I Don’t Get It will be able to relate to Aaron’s difficulties and the way he struggles with his faith when things don’t go his way; and every adult will do the same, and be reminded of the need to understand that when we pray, we must pray that God’s will be done, not ours.

Highly recommended!

ISBN-13: 978-0764822469
Original Language: English
Book Dimensions: 0.3 x 5.4 x 8.1 inches

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I am the author two Catholic YA novels published by Bezalel Books: FINDING GRACE (2012; available in Kindle and paperback at Amazon; recipient of the Catholic Writers Guild Seal of Approval and finalist for the CWG's Catholic Arts & Letters Award), and ERIN'S RING (2014; now available in paperback at Amazon).

I was born in NJ, grew up in Upstate NY, and studied at the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA, where I earned a BA in English. I am married to my high school sweetheart, with whom I raised five sons, now all grown, in Southern NH. These days, I'm also "Grammy" to four darling grandchildren (and counting!).

As a young girl, I always dreamed of one day writing a novel. After happily spending my entire adult life as a stay-at-home mom, I finally realized that dream when my first novel, FINDING GRACE, was published in 2012 after nearly five years as a work in progress. As if my bucket list wasn't already filled to the tippy-top, it's now overflowing with the November 2014 release of ERIN'S RING.

I write fiction that I hope will give glory to God--while inspiring young readers (and older ones as well) to fight the good fight, in a world that often seems to have forgotten Him. It's an honor and a privilege!

(I’ve been blogging about my faith and family and a host of other topics since 2011, at String of Pearls:  Just recently I started a second blog, dedicated to books and writing, called The Write Stuff:  Stop by and visit me!)

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